jueves, 14 de junio de 2018

I think I might be german in some aspects of my personality

I think I might be german in some aspects of my personality... it's seems even more frequent that now days people tell me that I am too straight forward but above all blunt... specially in my line of work and probably in my personal life too. To be honest it has been hard admitting it. 

Being like that has somehow set me back in work... I am supposed to master the art of charm, the art of coating, the art of glazing, smoothening and making truths appear less straight forward. Today I experienced something that truly made me reflect... people give their opinions very strongly,  I don't agree with a lot of them but I belief that everyone is entitle to have them. The thing that I don't understand is why if someone decides to give their opinion about yours, why can't they just exchange ideas? why does someone has to get mad? if you are questioning me about something I will happily answer that doesn't mean that I am mad, unless you disrespect me. If someone gives you a good argument please don't react with a passive aggressive or mocking response... if you want me to have the same point of view as you do please by all means convince me, but by trying to patronise me... and making fun of me or telling me to relax... in that moment your argument becomes weak and weary.

I feel utterly disgusted by the idea that you have to indulge into peoples lack of intelligence. You are entitled to your belief's and opinions but I don't have to agree with them or live by them. I can see life in a different light and as long as my view of things is not intolerant or ignorante I am proud of them. Actually I want a world with no colors, races, religions, sexual orientation, humans are humans and we are too busy categorizing everything that we've forgotten how to be that: human beings... The definition of humane is a kind, tender and compassionate person. So forgive me for not wanting to differentiate everything and explaining everything, the big picture to me is that we are all the same... death has tried to explain us that from the moment we were born and by every breath we take. 

My very strong opinion is that we all do something nice for ourself and stop judging others and concentrate on being the best human being you can possibly be, try to stand by the definition of humane as much as possible. 

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